She said she was always surprised that this bad, stupid girl never got raped.

I have friends I've relied on for 15 years - that's rare for a military brat. Recently, on a girls' weekend, I shared the story of my rape to them. I've learned things don't get smaller till you say them out loud. We worked together when I was raped, and it was someone they knew. It was brutal and I'm embarrassed, and it's still weird for anyone to touch my hair. Interrupting me, one of the girls said, "This girl I knew in college...". I said, "I don't like where this is going..." But she said she was always surprised that this bad, stupid girl never got raped. I want to confront my friend, but I love her. And I don't see ever changing her mind.