I was scorned by female friends for him having touched my butt and shoved his hand into my crotch.

Freshman year of high school, I was going out with a guy. Two weeks in, we kissed in the hall and he pinched my butt. It hurt, so I jumped and shrieked. He got offended by my reaction and told me not to be a pussy. At lunch that day, he put his hand on my leg. I brushed it off, and he returned his hand, and I reacted no differently. He then shoved his hand into my crotch, and I nearly fell out of my seat slapping at his arm and pushing him away. I was terrified! I told him no, and he looked down at me after I’d slid back into my seat and hissed, “What the fuck was that?” I told him I didn’t feel comfortable with him touching me there, and he slapped his hands on the table and stormed off. My friends asked what was wrong, and I told them about the pinch and what he did. The response I got was, “Well, that wasn’t very nice of you - you’ve been going out for two weeks, what did you expect?” and, “That’s really slutty of you, he wouldn’t do that.” Later, a friend of mine showed me an IM conversation she’d had with him, and he was asking her about dildos, whether she masturbated, and whether or not she’d fuck him because I was being a pussy about a butt-pinch. She told me to give him what he wanted, as that’s what a good girlfriend does. I told the both of them they were disgusting and I wasn’t going to do anything I didn’t want to. She then said she now had to sleep with him because I wouldn’t, and it would be the only way to get him to stop harassing her. I later found out he’d started shit talking me to his friends in our swim class, and I would get made fun of for being an “oversensitive prude.” On the other hand, I was scorned by female friends for being slutty for him having touched my butt and shoved his hand into my crotch, and by my best friend, a bitch because she was now somehow obligated to sleep with him because I wouldn’t, and he was harassing her about it while he and I were going out.