I am 48 and I was a victim of slut shaming starting when I was in 6th grade.

I am 48 and I was a victim of slut shaming starting when I was in 6th grade. My mother had mental health issues and would act out by having sex with men in our hometown… everyone knew except me. I also developed early and was very insecure, so that fueled the fire. Needless to say, I suffered the effects of this “hell” for years; well into my adult life. It has taken me years to recover and develop a healthy self esteem. So many think this is a new trend when actually, it has been going on for generations. I do believe, however, that it is probably worse now because of our society and social networking on the internet. I am so sad to think that so many young girls, with so much potential, have taken their lives because no one listened and no one took action. Parents, it is not just a phase that our children have to endure! Bullying in general will affect your child’s life forever. If they survive, they will carry the scars forever! I am now the mother of a young son, I began early on teaching him that bullying in any way, shape, or form is unacceptable. When he is “of a certain age” he will be told that speaking of young ladies in a derogatory manner is UNACCEPTABLE. To mine and my husband’s delight, our son has intervened in several bullying situations. he is kind and respectful to all people. I want to thank The UnSlut Project for a forum in which to speak openly about my slut shaming. I am here to support your efforts and any young woman who wants to talk. - Carla