He was praised for hooking up with me, and I was slut-shamed by my old “friends.”

My junior year I went to third base with the “hot guy” from my old school whom I was attracted to, but had no feelings for. I asked him not to tell, but of course he did. Soon everybody in my old class knew, and I heard from a friend that another girl said she “couldn’t look at me the same way” because I had given him a blow job. This was the only time I’d done more than kiss during high school. He was praised for hooking up with me, and I was slut-shamed by my old “friends.”