Nobody should be judged or degraded due to their sexual activity.

I was either classified as a prude or gay (bear in mind, it was hard enough figuring out my sexuality without having people submissively label me) in middle school and high school. One of my first boyfriends would talk about how "hot" other girls were and who had the "nicest body," which naturally made me feel insecure. He ended up breaking up with me, his idea of affection ultimately involving more than kissing or treating someone right. In high school, my guy "friends" would ask me personal things regarding how far I would go with someone, I didn't answer and I was labeled prude, lesbian (once again, not an insult), and somebody even told the boy I really liked that I had "baggage" due to that previous relationship. I ended up going out with this boy and I really trusted him, I didn't feel comfortable doing certain things and he claimed he understood. I felt like there was something wrong with me. It wasn't natural for me to hold back. Eventually, he cheated on me with a senior. That was a great way to spend my freshman year. After being put on the spot about my sexuality at a party, I stopped hanging out with these friends and did successfully forget about this ex-boyfriend, but this bad experience led to my knowledge about slut shaming and sexual bullying. I am not prude for not wanting to do certain things, a guy isn't gay for respecting a girl and nobody should be judged or degraded due to their sexual activity.