I participated in slut shaming.

I participated in slut shaming. I remember back when I was 13, I had a friend who had a crush on my classmate. I told the guy in my class that she was easy and would do anything. On the other hand, I told the girl that the guy loved her and was ready to be her boyfriend. I arranged their meeting. The guy didn't want anything to do with her but I told him she wouldn't mind getting physical, so the guy eventually complied. The girl wasn't sexually active at that time and she genuinely liked the guy. On their date, the guy kissed her on the cheek and they held hands. That's all that happened. I saw it, the guy's friends saw it. But what they told others was different from what they saw. Next day at school, she was ostracized from her friend group. The teachers disgraced her in front of the class. She changed 3 schools in four years but she couldn't escape from slut shaming. Whenever I tell someone what school I went to, they ask me if I have heard about her. They want to know all the juicy details. I haven't talked to her since the incident in 2007 and I probably never will. I do feel guilty for being the bitch I was. In reality the girl is still with her first boyfriend. They have been together since 2008 and she has never even dated anybody else.